Online Dating Seduction

Most men think that all they have to do is log onto an online dating site, tell the woman how beautiful she is, or how you really liked her profile, and that will soon lead to meeting her in person. Unfortunately, however, online dating seduction doesn’t work like that. It doesn’t work that way at all. In order to seduce a woman over the internet, you must create mystery. You must intrigue her. Then, you must make her laugh. She has to see you as fun, exciting and worth having. If you can accomplish that, she’ll be very attracted to you and then she will definitely want to get to know you better.

First, before you can even hope to seduce any woman online, you must create a profile. This part is very important as your profile is going to be the first thing a woman notices about you. It’s just like her seeing you across the room. She will judge you by the way you stand, and by the way you talk, and by the way you move. That’s your body language and that’s how she gauges how you are in person. Online, she can’t judge you by your body language so she does so by your profile.


Your Profile

When you sign on with an online dating site, you will be asked to make your profile. This will include a photo, a little bit about yourself, your likes, your dislikes and anything else you want a potential date to know about you. Now, don’t be like most men and go on and on about yourself.
For some reason, men are inclined to make their profile sound like a resume. They have this need to build themselves up that all they end up doing is turning a woman off. If you tell her about how great you are, and about how much stuff you have, she’ll think you’re self centered and will quickly look for someone she’s attracted to. Your job is to be that man she’s attracted to.


Vague and Funny

When you create your profile, you’re going to include who you are, what you’re about, who you’re looking for and then you’re going to ask a question. The only thing is that you are only going to do it in a few sentences and you’re going to make it funny. This isn’t as easy as it sounds, but if you can pull that off, your inbox will be full of messages. You might say something like, “I’m trying this online dating thing, but I’m already sick of my inbox being filled up by hot women. Will a less attractive woman please email me for once?” or something to that effect. You must project confidence and you must make her laugh. You can tell a funny story about work, or entertain her in some way that makes her want just a little bit more. That’s the name of the game.

You just want her to communicate with you. Either you want her to send a message, or you want your profile to make her smile enough to answer the message you send her. Once you open that communication, just keep her laughing and keep asking her about herself. Women love to talk about themselves and this will give you enough information to keep the back and forth communication going.


Your Photo

Now, a word on your photo. If you take a bad photo, it will have a drastic effect on your results. Therefore, you will want to pay special attention to which photo you choose. You should choose a head shot and a body shot and you should limit your pictures to three or four. If you’re not exceptionally good looking, you can increase your chances for success by using shadow and angles to make yourself look better on film. Once you get her started in a back and forth communication, it won’t matter what you look like. If you can charm her, you can get her number and then you’ll be able to meet her in person. After all, meeting her in person is what online dating seduction is all about.


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