Most men think that dating girls is all about showering them with attention and affection. They think they have to open doors for women and pull out their chairs and that they have to kiss the girl under the porch light. That may sound old fashioned to some reading this, but to most men that’s the image that’s been ingrained in their brains by culture and society as a whole. However, acting that way is the exact opposite of how you should act if you want a girl to keep dating you. You must build attraction if you hope for this to happen and the only way to do that is to treat her unlike any other man treats her.

Understand that treating her differently doesn’t mean be mean to her. Quite the opposite, actually. You’re instead going to tease her. You’re going to challenge her. And you’re going to have a straight face when you do it. Pretend she’s your friend’s little sister. Nag her and ride her. If you do this, it will drive her absolutely crazy with desire.

You must find a healthy balance between flirting with her and teasing her. She should never really know what your true intentions are. If you keep this up, she will be yours for the taking.

Opening Doors

Most men will open the car door for a woman and then the restaurant door, and then they’ll pull out the chair for the woman. This is all sweet and good but it’s not what she wants. She may say that and that kind of behaviour is often the subject of very popular chick flicks, but it has no basis in reality. If it did, people like former Motley Crue drummer Tommy Lee wouldn’t get some of the hottest chicks on the planet. Instead, turn things around on her in a playful way.

For instance, if you’re off to a restaurant, wait for her to sit down but remain standing. Then say something to the effect of, “Aren’t you going to pull out my chair?” She’ll likely laugh at this and it will get it out of the way that you don’t act like that. Once the relationship has started, you can be as nice as you want. But if you’re trying to build attraction, you must tease and challenge her if you want her to be attracted to you.

Always Be Advancing

Once you’re flirting with a woman, you should be trying for either a phone number or actual contact. Contact is touching of your skin to hers. Touch her hand when you’re talking to her, or her arm. Let it be natural, as if you’re talking to a dear friend. When you touch her arm, move to her back. Always be advancing. If you get her phone number, call her and ask to meet her in person. If the two of you are out to dinner, suggest you can go dancing so you can get closer to her. You get the idea.

By advancing the relationship, you’ll be able to get to her to do whatever you want her to. This will work even on the hottest women. For it to work, however, you must have complete confidence in yourself. That’s the only way to attract a woman, is to have confidence, and the only way to have confidence is to start thinking that you do. Once you start thinking like you’re confident, you will slowly begin to believe it.

If you can remember all those things when dating girls, you will have a much higher success rate, no matter how hot the woman you pursue may be.

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