Have you ever noticed that some women seem to be able to attract any man they set their sights on almost effortlessly? Yet there are other women that simply can’t seem to get a date.

Flirting Tips for Women

So what is the difference between these two types of women? What drives men wild over the first type of women that they’ll fall over themselves to reach her? What makes men bypass the second type of woman completely?

Most women instantly assume it must be because they’re too ugly, too short, too fat, too dark, too tall, too thin – the list of inadequacies is almost endless. Women always believe there’s something about their appearance that makes them somehow invisible to men.

The simple truth is, men are highly attracted to confident women who aren’t afraid to flirt a little.

 

What is Flirting?

Flirting is a biological signal sent between interested humans to let each other know of their interest. It’s can also be a lot of fun.

When you consider that men are often just as worried as women about what to say, how they look and how to act when meeting someone new, it can almost be a relief to them to see a women who is openly flirting with them.

It tells him that this woman is interested in him and wants him to approach her. This ability to flirt is the primary reason why some women are able to attract almost any man at all.

Now think about the last time you were out at a party or in a club. Did you openly try to catch that attractive guy’s eye? Or did you hide in a corner with your shoulders slumped or your arms folded over your chest?

Flirting is about subtle body language signals and some playful banter designed to let each other know of your interest.

 

Key Indicators of Flirting

There are many signals both men and women send to each other when they’re interested in pursuing a relationship. Perhaps the key indicators of successful flirting include plenty of eye contact and smiling.

These simple gestures can initiate some of the most successful relationships, if they’re interpreted correctly.

Other indicators men look for in a woman who might be flirting with them include stroking or playing with her hair and subtly licking her lips. These actions draw his attention to her even further and let him know that she’s definitely attracted to him.

 

Flirting to Attract the Right Guy

Men are able to tell in just a few minutes whether the woman he’s flirting with is relationship material or not, and this is usually done subconsciously. They assess a woman’s posture and determine whether she’s confident in herself. They’ll look for clues about whether she’s really interested in him alone, or whether she’s scoping the room for something better.

They do this to avoid the risk of being rejected. Men can often become anxious or nervous at the thought of approaching a woman, so make it easy for them to want to come to you.

If you find yourself in a situation where you want to attract a specific man to you, they key is to understand how to send out signs of flirting to him with your eyes, your smile and your movements.

When you catch his eye, be sure to prolong contact for longer than normal. Give him a cheeky little smile at the same time, and then promptly look down as though you’re being coy. Don’t look over his shoulder, or over at that other cute guy in a different corner. Look down.

After just a few seconds, glance back at him and see if he’s still watching you. If he is, maintain your eye contact again, give him that sexy little smile and raise an eyebrow in invitation.

Before long, he’ll be working his way across the room to come over and meet you.

The key to flirting to attract the right guy to you is all about making the person you’re flirting with feel attractive and special, but it’s also about letting him know you’re inviting him to come over to you.

 

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