What Attracts Men?

When it comes to men and their levels of attraction, they are based on a few factors:

• Physical attraction
• Mental attraction
• Social attraction
• Physical attraction

No, that’s not a typo. Physical attraction is mentioned twice on purpose, but we’ll get to that later. First, let’s look at physical attraction in general. Men are biologically made to notice a woman’s appearance. It’s no coincidence that beautiful women sell magazines and why movies depicting beautiful women sell out at the box office. Sex sells and beauty sells, and it’s all because of biology. Men’s DNA is designed to go after the most biologically viable female. That means he is looking for a woman who will make healthy babies.

While that may sound animalistic and impersonal, it’s a biological fact. Therefore, it’s no wonder why you, as a woman, dress up before you go out. You’ll shave your legs, wax your eyebrows, use special bras to push your boobs together, put make up on your face, do your hair and wear lots of great smelling perfume. Why do you do this? You do it to attract a man. Because you know a man is always going to be attracted to the physical first.

However, the physical isn’t the only thing that attracts a man. If you’re not the best looking woman on the planet, and you don’t have the best body, you can still attract men. You can do it by playing on their mental attraction levels. This is where you constantly keep him guessing and you never let him onto to how you truly feel about him.

Building and maintaining mental attraction can best be accomplished by teasing him, flirting with him and then ignoring him, making a date with him and then cancelling or postponing that date, etc. If he’s constantly put off balance, he will go crazy for you and will pursue you more than ever. You must keep him hooked, however, which is done by showing him attention, flirting with him and even turning him on, then pulling away. This trick works like a charm and even if he’s not that physically attracted to you. Of course there must be at least some physical attraction for this to work, but even if it’s only a little he will go crazy with desire when you play on his mental attraction levels.

Social attraction is where you always have something going on. When he calls, tell him you were busy with a club you attend, or you were out with friends. A man never wants to know that you’re just home sitting by the phone waiting for him to call. He wants to know that you’re desired by other men. He wants to know that you have friends and that you go out with those friends. The thing is that most men don’t know they want this. But if you can make it appear as though your calendar is always full, and that you don’t have a lot of time for him, he will go crazy with desire. He’ll make it his personal goal to implant himself into your social life. Your job is just to give him attention and then pull away because you’re too busy. Create the right balance, and you’ll have him eating out of the palm of your hand.

Finally, there’s physical attraction again. It’s included twice on the list because it’s so important when it comes to men and attraction levels. So if you want to get that man you’ve got your sights on, make sure you’re what he’s looking for physically. That doesn’t mean you have to look like a model. It just means taking care of yourself and making yourself look desirable. If you can accomplish that, you’ll be able to create attraction in any man you have your eye on.


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