When it comes to attracting women, most men don’t have a clue how to do it. They think that all you have to do is give a woman gifts and tell her that her hair looks pretty and she’ll be all yours. Not quite. If that were true, the bad boys wouldn’t get all the hot chicks. The nerds would get all the girls and there have been countless movies made that tell us all that nerds just don’t get many women. However, there is a way to create attraction in a woman no matter if you’re popular or nerdy. All it takes is making the woman feel as though you’re different than any other man in her life.

How to Attract a Woman

The reason most men don’t know how to attract women is because it doesn’t take much to attract us men. As men, we are typically attracted to the physical first. With women, it’s the opposite. Women want to know that a man has a job and that he’s mentally and physically secure and she wants to know that he’s going to bring something different and exciting to her life. If you can provide that for her, she’ll instantly develop an attraction to you.

To start, you’re going to have to introduce yourself to the woman as if you’re the most interesting person in the room. To do this, you must have confidence. If you don’t have confidence, you turn her off almost immediately. That’s because someone who is insecure isn’t very exciting to be around.

To exhibit confidence, you must not only feel the part but you must also look the part. That means standing, walking, talking, and doing everything else as if you were brimming with confidence. This means standing up straight, walking with your shoulders back and your chin up, speaking to her while using eye contact and even cracking jokes at her expense (in a playful way). Women can determine confidence levels just by looking at you and that means you must look and act like a confident person.

The good news is that you can develop confidence as long as you work at it. You simply must think back to a time when you were extremely confident. Whenever you feel yourself feeling unconfident, bring that image back to the forefront of your mind. That will restore your confidence and you’ll have a higher chance of picking up any hot women you talk to.

Now, back to introducing yourself. To attract a woman, you must be able to talk to her without having her guard go up. Women have a guard they put up to protect her from getting taken advantage of. So instead of giving her a pickup line, which will instantly have her guard up, talk to her about something you have a reason to talk to her about. She’ll instantly see you as a nice person to talk to instead of some creep trying to get in her pants, or whatever women think in those types of situations.

Try to make her laugh within the first few minutes of talking to her so that you can break the ice. Then, ask her about herself. Women will take any excuse to talk about themselves and so this gives you the opportunity to get a good conversation going.

Just ask plenty of questions, use eye contact, and touch her as often as you can. Then, once you’ve got her, challenge her a little bit.

This is the biggest aspect to building attraction with women. You must challenge her. Don’t give her her way. Tease her a little bit and keep a straight face. This will put her a little off balance and she won’t know if you’re kidding or not. If she gets mad, she’s not worth it. If she laughs, however, then you’ve successfully hooked her and she will build instant attraction to you. After that, picking her up will be very easy.


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