All you have to do is turn on the television around one or two in the afternoon to find all the talk shows that speak of cheating men. Why do men cheat? Is it because he’s always looking for the bigger better deal, as in he’ll cheat the first opportunity he gets with any woman hotter than you? Or is cheating in men’s DNA? Maybe it’s true that men have a biological need to spread their seed with as many women as possible. Maybe there’s nothing you can do to prevent him cheating. That is all nonsense. Men cheat because they’re not happy at home. Period. If you can make your man happy, and you can solidify the bond between the two of you, you’ll never have to worry about being on one of those talk shows because your man cheated on you.

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The Reasons Men Cheat

Show me a cheating man and I’ll show you a broken relationship. While things may seem fine to outsiders, there’s some issue going on that’s preventing the couple from forming a solid union. Either communication has broken down, they’re not having sex anymore or they’re having it less frequently, or they may be fighting constantly. For some couples, it’s all of the above. The bottom line is that if things were happy at home, the man wouldn’t try to find solace in someone else’s bed.

For example, let’s pretend your man is out at a bar with his coworkers after work. He has a few drinks and a woman that he works with starts coming onto him. Now, if your relationship was solid, you would always be on the back of his mind and he wouldn’t even consider going home with that woman. However, if he isn’t thinking about you at all, something’s wrong and that’s when you may find that other woman intruding on your relationship. For that reason, to prevent him from cheating, you must fix things at home.



You must ensure that the two of you have good communication. If communication has broken down, maybe it’s time to find a counselor. Or, find something the two of you are interested in and then expand on that. For instance, if you both like fishing, why not make it a regular Sunday thing to go fishing together? Or, if you like cooking, take a cooking class together. By doing this, you will make your relationship stronger than ever and that’s when he’s less likely to cheat.


Happy Sex Life

How is your sex life? Usually, when you hear of men cheating it’s because the couple isn’t having sex anymore or they’re having much less sex than they did. If you have gained weight, either because of kids or just from feeling comfortable, and it’s made you feel unsexy, it may be time to think about losing weight. Your man should still feel attracted to you. If he’s not, you have to wonder why. However, if the two of you aren’t having sex anymore and you’re not sure why, ask him. Or, go out and buy some sexy lingerie to spice things up. This works because it’s also true that a man who has a happy sex life doesn’t cheat. If you can improve your sex life, you’ll find him much happier and then you won’t have to worry about him whenever he’s out of your sight.

If you were to ask most men why they cheat, they may blame alcohol, or they may say they weren’t thinking, etc. The truth is, however, that any man who has a happy relationship, and who is content with their partner, has no need for another woman. That’s how you prevent him cheating and that’s also how you form a happy and solid relationship together.


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